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Being a Mom of Integrity

September 17, 2009 by adavant  
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Integrity, it is one of the traits that I learned from my parents, by their actions.  My mom and dad were people who “practiced what they preached” and that in layman’s terms is what I believe integrity is, though more specifically it is “the state of being complete, unified.”

I believe that when I have integrity, my words and my deeds match up.  People with integrity have nothing to hide and nothing to fear.  As a youth leader I have told youth dozens of times, garbage in, garbage out.  Your thoughts will come out in your actions.

The Bible says that “Where your treasure is your heart will be also.” Matthew 6:21 (NIV) A person of integrity has their heart in the right place.  Their priorities are in the right order and they practice what they preach.  They maintain their promises and they live their beliefs.

So, my question for you is, “Are you a mom of integrity?” Be a mom of integrity, a mom who follows through with her warnings for discipline, they’ll thank you for it later.  Be a mom, who does not participate in the things that she warns her children again.  Be a mom who models by example the principles she hopes her children will embrace.

Only by being a person of integrity will others follow after you, and will you be a positive influence on those around you, especially your children.  Of anyone in our lives, it is our children that we hope to influence the most.

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  1. Teresa Cribbs says:

    This really speakes to me this week. Being a mom of integrity is something I pray daily for. I want my daughter to see me live the life I want for her when she is older. She is a teenager and I homeschool so we spend alot of time together. Modeling by example is a daily, moment by moment thing. I am doing a bible study with other parents on parenting right now and one of the questions was for us to ask ourselves “Could I Say?:
    Be like me:
    Read God’s word as much as I do, Pray as much as I do, Ask forgiveness as I do, Do with your money as I do. Could they (your children) model your actions?

    Thank you Alyssa for your ministry!

  2. Eren Mckay says:

    Alyssa- I completely agree with this advice. We need to always follow through. When I became consistent with my son his behavior changed completely.
    It was really a trun aroudn when I started to be consistent and follow through.
    Blessings,
    Eren Mckay

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