It’s A Girl Thing
April 20, 2007 by adavant
Filed under Alyssa's Journal
Emotional, moody, on edge, what is wrong with them?? Boys and men most likely won’t ever understand the people in their lives they call girls. My younger brother is just beginning a new relationship, one of many in his 21 years of life, however, he still does not get it. What is it you ask… the girl. He does not understand the emotional, on edge, touchiness that she has on a regular basis. Nor does he get that she really is not trying to pick a fight or be a nuisance. She is just being herself, she is just being a girl.
For me everything she is doing makes perfect sense. It would most likely to all you girls and women out there. She is emotional if he does not call and she feels that he is angry at her if he raises his voice or questions her intentions. She is on edge and worries that she will loose him so she hangs on to his ever sly comment, even when he’s just kidding. Crazy? No, she is just being herself, the weaker sex as they say. But really is there anything wrong with her being this way. My answer, “NO.” It’s just a part of being a girl, coming of age in a uncertain, insecure world. Nothing is certain in today’s society and relationships are no exception. As long as there are girls and guys and relationships there will be misunderstandings and miscommunication. Boys may never understand us as girls, but I bet there’s one thing for sure. We don’t understand them either.
God made men and women different and it isn’t just on the outside! We think differently and we communicate differently. We even communicate for different reasons. I teach a seminar called How to Talk to Your Spouse, Cuz You Must which tells some pretty funny miscommunication stories. It will be part of my newest eBook, Say What You Mean When You’re Married.
We are different. God made us that way. With a little understanding and effective communication skills, we can get along just fine!
JoJo
Men and women are different and it isn’t just on the outside. We communicate differently and for different reasons. I teach a seminar called How to Talk to Your Spouse Cuz You Must which highlights some of the funny miscommunication. It will be part of my newest eBook Say What You Mean When You’re Married.
Men and women are different but with a little understanding and effective communication skills, we can get along just fine!
JoJo
WOW! I was just telling my husband the other day that he needs to read up on women and hormones. On the other hand, there comes a time when we must subject those emotions to Christ and ask for the Holy Spirit to control them. This is what I have been working on for a while.
I noticed that as I do it gets easier to handle those mood swings.
I can do all things with Christ!